Dashain: A Festival of Family, Tradition, and Joy

Dashain, the most awaited festival in Nepal, brings with it a sense of excitement, warmth, and togetherness. It’s a time when families come together, homes are decorated, and the entire country buzzes with festivity. But what exactly makes Dashain so special, and why is it such an important celebration for Nepali people?

What is Dashain?

Dashain is a Hindu festival that spans 15 days, usually celebrated in late September or early October, depending on the lunar calendar. It honors the victory of the goddess Durga over the demon Mahishasura, symbolizing the triumph of good over evil. This theme resonates deeply with everyone, making Dashain not just a religious celebration but also a cultural and national festival.

A Time for Family and Reunions

Dashain is all about family. It’s a time when people travel from far and wide to return to their ancestral homes. Schools, offices, and businesses close for the festival, allowing people to fully immerse themselves in the celebrations. For many, it’s one of the few times in the year when extended families gather, share meals, and create memories.

Rituals and Traditions

The festival begins with Ghatasthapana, where seeds are planted in a pot to grow sacred barley grass (Jamara), symbolizing the goddess Durga’s blessings. Over the next days, various forms of Durga are worshiped.

One of the most iconic traditions of Dashain is the receiving of Tika and Jamara from elders. On the day of Vijaya Dashami, the tenth day, elders bless younger family members with tika (a mixture of rice, yogurt, and vermillion) and place the Jamara on their heads. This act of blessing signifies the transfer of prosperity, protection, and strength.

Kite Flying, Fairs, and Feasts

During Dashain, the skies of Nepal are filled with colorful kites, a traditional pastime that brings joy to both children and adults. The sound of laughter and the thrill of kite battles fill the air. Alongside kite flying, people also enjoy swinging on bamboo swings (ping), which are temporarily built in many villages and towns for the occasion.

The festival is also marked by large family feasts. Traditional dishes like goat meat (khasi ko masu), sel roti, and a variety of other delicacies are prepared. Houses are filled with the smell of delicious food, and family members come together to enjoy these meals.

New Clothes and Shopping Sprees

Dashain is also a time for new beginnings, which means buying new clothes is an essential part of the celebration. Markets are packed with people shopping for new attire for themselves and their families. The joy of dressing up in new clothes, especially for children, adds to the excitement.

A Festival for All

Although rooted in Hindu mythology, Dashain is celebrated by people of all religions and ethnicities in Nepal. It has become a symbol of unity and cultural harmony, where people from different backgrounds come together to share in the festivities.

Conclusion

Dashain is more than just a festival. It’s a celebration of tradition, family, and the values of good prevailing over evil. For many Nepali people, it represents a time of gratitude, joy, and renewal. As we prepare to celebrate Dashain this year, let’s cherish the moments we spend with our loved ones and remember the deeper meaning behind this beautiful festival.

Happy Dashain to everyone!